Part Three of The Way Up Is Down Series
THE WORLD’S WAYS UP
“Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up.” (James 4:10)
(Note: Last time we asked the question, “What is the top of the mountain?” We saw that the top of the mountain is not financial security, success in your chosen field, or even human relationships. We’re going to learn what the top of the mountain is and how to get there, but first we need to look at some of the ways the world says we get up the mountain.)
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Let me share with you the four main ways the world tries to get from here to there. How does the world say you get to the top of the mountain?
1) The way up is “up” (the path of self-exaltation)
The first way is simple: the way up is “up.” This is the path of self exaltation. The path of self exaltation is pride in yourself. When you take this path, the way up is “up” because you believe the only way to reach the top of the mountain is if you lift yourself up.
So you boast, you brag, and you draw attention to yourself. After all, you’re the greatest! You’re the best! You’re the king of the mountain! And if you can just convince yourself and everyone else that you are already there, that you have already arrived at the top, then maybe, just maybe, you really will be there. This is the path of self-exaltation. The path of self-exaltation says: the way up is “up.”
2) The way up is “over” (the path of self-promotion)
The second way the world tries to get to the top of the mountain is “over.” This is the path of self-promotion. Whereas the path of self-exaltation is pride in yourself, the path of self-promotion is pride in comparison to other people. When you take this path, the way up is “over” because you believe the only way to reach the top of the mountain is to get there over other people.
So you criticize and compare. You talk behind people’s backs. The smaller other people seem, the bigger you appear, and so you develop this nasty habit of cutting people down to size. You put yourself first at every opportunity. You convince yourself that you are more important than anyone else. You view other people as stepping stones to get you where you want to go, and you willingly climb over their backs to get there. This is the path of self-promotion. The path of self-promotion says: the way up is “over” — over other people who get in your way.
3) The way up is “through” (the path of self-effort)
The third way the world tries to get to the top of the mountain is “through.” This is the path of self-effort. The path of self-effort is also pride, but this time it is pride in your own accomplishments and abilities. When you take this path, the way up is “through” because you believe the only way to reach the top of the mountain is through your own efforts.
So you labor and work and take pride in all that you do. The phrase “pulling yourself up by your own bootstraps” was invented just for you. You don’t take charity. Everything you are and everything you have is the result of your own labor and work. You will get to the top of the mountain all by yourself, thank you, because you want all the credit once you get there. This is the path of self-effort. The path of self-effort says: the way up is “through.”
4) The way up is “around” (the path of self-preservation)
And then there’s a fourth way the world tries to get to the top of the mountain, and that is “around.” This is the path of self-preservation. The path of self-preservation is the pride of entitlement. When you take this path, the way up is “around” because you believe the only way to reach the top of the mountain is to go around all the obstacles in your way.
So you avoid pain and sacrifice whenever you can. You don’t believe the rules apply to you, so you go around them at every chance. You hate discipline. You take shortcuts. You drive in the breakdown lane. If everyone lived the way you lived, the world could not function, but that’s okay, because not everyone is you. You’re entitled. You’re somebody. You’re special. And so you go through life avoiding anything that causes you displeasure or discomfort. This is the path of self-preservation. The path of self-preservation says: the way up is “around.”
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Those are the four main ways the world tries to get from here to there: up, over, through, and around. And you know what? They all have something in common. None of them work. None of them will actually get you there. None of them will get you to the top of the mountain. When you try to take the way up, over, through, or around, you will always find yourself back at the base of the mountain, still waiting to get from here to there.
Next: God’s Way Up
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