Taming Television in the Home
Taming Technology in the Home series:
● Taming Television in the Home
● Taming Video Games in the Home
● Taming the Internet in the Home
Although television can be a valuable source for news, information and entertainment, it can also bring a number of negatives into your home. The two main issues with television are time and content. I will address the time issue tomorrow (along with video games), but today I want to talk about content. How do you protect your children from inappropriate content on TV? Here are some of the things we do.
- Watch on DVD: One way we control content is by doing much of our TV watching on DVD. We collect movies and old favorites on DVD so that we can watch what we want when it is convenient and avoid commercials at the same time.
- Use a DVR: We use a DVR (Digital Video Recorder) to record current programs we would like to watch without being tied to the TV at a certain time of day. As an added plus, the DVR also lets us fast-forward through the commercials. (This is a great time-saver, especially when watching sporting events.)
- Keep it public: Our kids do not have TV’s in their bedrooms. When you are trying to control content in the home, it makes sense to limit the number of TV’s available and to keep them in the public areas of the home.
- Set appropriate boundaries: We set boundaries with our kids for both time and content on TV. (Again, more on the time issue tomorrow!) We direct them to good content, and we let them know when a certain movie or show is not acceptable. If something comes on that is inappropriate while watching together, we set the example by switching the channel or turning it off. It is important to know what movies or shows your kids are watching and to make sure they are appropriate for your children.
- Talk: We try to talk with our kids about what we watch. We want to teach them how to discern the various messages found in TV shows or movies. For example, we like Star Trek as a family. It has some great story lines and admirable characters. However, I don’t always agree with the worldview that is presented. So we talk about it and help our kids become active viewers of media rather than passive receptacles.
- Block: We use the settings on our DVD player and cable box to block certain programs or channels with inappropriate content. We have it set up so that anything with a PG-13 rating or higher requires a password for access.
And here are two additional gadgets we have found helpful. These have allowed us to watch a lot of great movies together as a family that we would have otherwise passed by, either because of the language or due to certain scenes we felt were inappropriate.
- TVGuardian: TVGuardian filters out inappropriate language from TV shows and movies. There are various settings depending on what you want to filter. You can purchase TVGuardian built-in on some DVD players or as a separate device. We have used it in our home for years, and it does a great job of filtering out curse words and religious exclamations we would rather not have in our home.
- ClearPlay: ClearPlay DVD Players filter out both language and visual elements from regular DVD movies. ClearPlay is customizable, and you can turn off or on fourteen different filter settings relating to inappropriate language, violent content or sexual content. ClearPlay has an extensive library of available filters, and they are always adding more. They offer several price options, including a monthly membership which gives you full access to all filters at all times.
So, what things have you done to help tame the television in your home? Feel free to share in the comments below.
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This is one of my favorite topics.. technology in the home…
Our family also limits TV and computer usage, although, computer usage has definitely been on the rise as the age of our children increases and the information and entertainment available on the internet increases.
2 quick thoughts/questions…
Does the use of filters (audio or visual) instill an idea that I can now watch anything…the filter will take care of it?
We have found that we cannot even watch “Extreme Makeover:Home Edition” without having the remote available to switch off the objectionable Ads/content.
When speaking of a movie/show that you watched in conversation to others, they do not know that you have watched it using various filters. They assume that you have watched it with scenes and language included. This may cause them to make certain judgements about you and that if it is OK for you to watch, it is OK for them to watch too. (not that either is good reasoning)
I’ll be watching other posts here, just interested in how christian families approach technology in general.
Tom – Great points! Let me respond to a couple of them.
1) Does the use of filters (audio or visual) instill an idea that I can now watch anything? — I suppose this could be a potential pitfall, but it has worked the opposite way for us. It has made the kids aware of how serious we are about language in the home, especially the misuse of God’s name. Plus, we are always careful about the non-filtered content, i.e. the message being presented. There are plenty of junk movies/shows that aren’t worth watching with or without filters.
2) We have found that we cannot even watch “Extreme Makeover:Home Edition” without having the remote available to switch off the objectionable Ads/content. — Commercials can be really bad, even when you are just relaxing watching a ballgame. This is where we have found the DVR helpful. We can fast-forward past the commercials saving time and skipping the questionable content. And when we watch shows on DVD we don’t even have to fast-forward!
3) When speaking of a movie/show that you watched in conversation to others, they do not know that you have watched it using various filters. They assume that you have watched it with scenes and language included. — This has happened to us before, and so now we try to remember to tell people that we use the filters. I remember seeing a movie on TV (Cousin Vinnie) before we had any filtering equipment. We thought, “What a good, clean, fun comedy without any bad language or objectionable scenes.” So we got the video. What we didn’t know was that the TV version had been edited for language and content. What a shocker when we put the video in and heard the actual language used in the movie! We had to turn it off. Now we can watch and enjoy it with the filter.